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Peaks-Valleys: Effects on the Family 3-4

Attempts to Reorganize in Spite of Problems

ALCOHOLIC FAMILY

- Crisis occurs which requires action (wife)

Returns to work,possible separation

wife becomes manager, disciplines, decision maker

controller, assuming husband and father roles

- alcoholic is ignored

-reorganization of priorities with children first

Attempts to undermine discipline -pity for alcoholic

desperate attempt to regain children's

affection -children's acceptance of drinking as permanent

open expression resentments against

children

abuse

feelings of isolation -outside activities increase

attempts fo enter circle of warmth or

smash it

Increase in Money problems, Violence, Accidents, Illness, Bizarre Behavior

Alcoholic Family

Attempts to stop drinking hope is rekindled

Repeated drinking hope is destroyed

social agencies frequently consulted

Al Anon increase in stability and self worth

no attempts to cover up drinking

Efforts to Escape

decision to separate or divorce due to:

near catastrophes

accumulated problems

emotional problems

practical difficulties

damage to children

Next Difficulties in Efforts to Escape

Developed by Louise Mehrman 1975 Amityville, New york for South Oaks Hospital