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Questions to Ask Yourself About a New Dating Partner
1. Can you state particular characteristics of this person that you like/admire? 2. Is partner glad you have other friends? 3. Is partner pleased at your accomplishments and ambitions? 4. Does your partner ask for and give consideration to your opinions? 5. Does this person both talk and listen? 6. Is this person able to verbalize his/her feelings? 7. Does this person have a good relationship with nuclear family? 8. Does this person have good friends? 9. Does this person have interests besides you? 10. Do you consider this person as a friend as well as a potential love/mate? 11. Does partner respect your right to make decisions affecting your own life? 12. Does this person accept responsibility for his/her actions (not blame failures /negative results on others)? 13. When angry, does (s)he break or throw things? 14. Does partner lose his/her temper easily? 15. Does this person ask you about your past dating partners? 16. Does partner expect to be told where you have been when you are not with him.her? 17. Does this person think there are circumstances in which it is okay for a man to hit a woman? 18. Is partner jealous of your friends or relatives? 19. Does partner think you are cheating on him/her if you talk to or dance with some one else? 20. Does partner get angry if you are not attentive to him/her? 21. Does he/she take over when you are having trouble doing something whether you want them to or not. 22. Does partner silently sulk when angry? 23. Does this person drink or take drugs almost every day, or go on periodic binges? 24. Does this person ridicule you or put you down? 25. Do you like yourself less than usual when you have been with this person?
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